Dating flirt love hui
You just go to her, look her in the eyes, and say it seriously.
If you have a nice smile, (by “nice” I mean that kind of like “sunshine”, not “funny” nice) then smile to her, it is a plus.
Girls do not like being pushed, so text messages can show that you do care about her, but also you give her enough time and space to reply your kindness.
Of course, if you have the time and opportunities to see her often, such as having class together, or working together etc., then your chance will increase largely. If you see someone regularly, the familiarity will build up and it will not seem abrupt if you ask her out one day.
wǒ hěn dān xīn ne]” “You look different today, new hair style?
/你今天看起来有点不一样啊，新发型？[nǐ jīn tiān kàn qǐ lái yǒu diǎn bù yí yàng a, xīn fà xíng?
A lot of westerns males want to know how to flirt with Chinese girls, well, the Chinese guys are also wondering about the exact same question.
]” In this way, she will think you are sweet and caring.
And then you can give her some small stuff, but casual, like this “you look a bit tired, I bought coffee/chocolate for you.
That is also the reason why most Chinese girls seem conservative, shy, or distant.
So the problem we need to deal with is how to ask a Chinese girl and not get “shot down” at the first place. My suggestion is to be honest, and completely open.