Dating in your 30 s

After the third or fourth like-minded couple dated courtesy of my meddling, I took a huge gamble. Gushing, grateful emails and smiling couple selfies started piling up in my inbox.

I walked away from the 9-to-5 job I hated and started my own matchmaking company. Yet somehow, lonely stranger after lonely stranger entrusted me with their money and their heart. For the first few years of matchmaking, I burst into tears at every client engagement, wedding invitation and birth announcement.

In your twenties, it doesn’t take much more than matching Canadian flag patches on weathered backpacks to cement your status as travel besties. The more I talked to her, the more she reminded me of someone I knew.

Done with the flakes on OKCupid, the crickets on e Harmony.

Done with the disappointing set-ups by well-meaning family and friends.

This creates a dating environment that is more relaxed and enjoyable with fewer games.” “Often times, people get into relationships and start to neglect other people who play important roles in their lives,” points out Nicole Carl, a licensed professional counselor at Clarity Clinic in Chicago.

When you’re single at 30, you can use your time to invest in close relationships and develop even stronger ties with them.

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