My boyfriend online dating sites
I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently…
It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.
I understand that we’re all human and we notice the opposite sex, but I just have lots of questions running through my mind now like “was he being genuine at the beginning?
”, “is he such a sexual being that when I’m not there, his eyes wander and therefore will he cheat on me?
Should I be feeling so insecure or do I just need to let it go?
Now, your partner could be texting someone else in another room and you don’t know.
Is this typical male behaviour and I am just unable to see beyond my own female perspective?
If it is, what things should I be asking myself or focus on to try and stop my mind from going over all this stuff in my head?
I feel really confused though, as he told me that he used to do this (“yes” or “no” thing on the dating website) before we started a relationship almost just to fill the time I guess.
He also told me that the reason he’s started doing it again recently was because he’s bored whilst he’s staying in hotels.